by Barnabas | Mar 30, 2026 | Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Gender Dysphoria, My Personal Journey, Suffering, Temptations |
Take some time this week to deeply reflect on the wonder and power of Jesus’ resurrection. It is not just some theoretical principle that we have to believe in. It is a reality which should fundamentally change our lives! Something to reflect on daily, not just...
by Barnabas | Jan 22, 2026 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Bible, Forgiveness, Marriage, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography |
I would like to recommend the book Rescue Plan: Charting a Course to Restore Prisoners of Pornography. I will also share some quotations from the book and some of my reflections. This is one of the better books I have read on sexual addiction from a Christian...
by Barnabas | Dec 26, 2025 | Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Envy, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Idolatry, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Transgender |
There is a lot of debate in online forums about whether indulging autogynephilic desires is addictive by nature or not. Some argue that there is nothing wrong or unhealthy about autogynephilia as a sexual orientation when men engage in autogynephilic behaviors in a...
by Barnabas | Nov 20, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage |
Broken marriage and betrayal is one of the biggest issues we face in this ministry. Many wives come to us because they have just found out about their husband’s trans porn, crossdressing, or feminine alter identity. Usually they have found out not because their...
by Barnabas | Oct 10, 2025 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Gender Dysphoria, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Masturbation, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Transgender |
It is really common for men with autogynephilia to end up enjoying crossdressing without any sexual component. For many of them, this is an argument they use for themselves and to other people to justify why their crossdressing is harmless and not a bad thing. Or they...
by Barnabas | Oct 4, 2025 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Guest Posts, Marriage, Psychologists, Support Groups, Testimonies |
Title: Ann’s Testimony This is a brief story on how my life literally crumbled to the ground and how day by day, hard work and consistency have paid off. In August 2024 I discovered that my husband was crossdressing at home. When I caught him it was like...
by Barnabas | Aug 25, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Guest Posts |
TITLE: ADDICTION AND THE THREE WILLS OF GOD Subtitle: Understanding God’s will and yours amidst addiction By: NHA, Leadership Team Member Choice. What a concept. That mental faculty encompassing your ability to consciously choose, decide, and direct your actions...
by Barnabas | Jun 19, 2025 | Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Pornography, Prayer, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations |
Don’t Do It: Stopping Addiction at First Sight By NHA: There you are, minding your business, and suddenly, a wayward thought arises. You are being tempted. You prayed the past was past. You promised God you would not go down that path again. Yet, a voice,...
by Barnabas | May 22, 2025 | Allosexuality, Asexuality, Autogynephilia, Autosexuality, Crossdressing, Marriage, My Personal Journey, Paraphilias, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Singleness |
One helpful way to handle living with autogynephilia (AGP) is learning to prioritize your heterosexuality and starve your autogynephilia. This can help to greatly lessen the strength of our autogynephilic desires over time. This is the experience I have had along with...
by Barnabas | May 3, 2025 | Accountability, Crossdressing, Gender Stereotypes, Guest Posts, Marriage, Testimonies |
Written by NHA I struggled with crossdressing (CD) for many years. I kept it a secret from everyone. My wife, Lisa, may have had an inkling that I crossdressed now and then, but it had been many years since I admitted it when she noticed fuzz from her velvet...
by Barnabas | Apr 7, 2025 | Accountability, Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Sexual Pleasure, Testimonies |
In this post are questions asked by wives in the Private Wives Group which is a support and prayer group for wives of crossdressers. The questions are answered by a few former crossdressers from the Christian Recovery Group. The wives have very diverse experiences...
by Barnabas | Mar 6, 2025 | Accountability, Bible, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Gender Dysphoria, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, My Personal Journey |
An acquaintance named John once commented on this site – “One of the sad things about crossdressing websites is that it is so often men connecting with men while hiding behind a female moniker or name. I think there is something to that which goes deeper...
by Barnabas | Feb 13, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Guest Posts, Practical Tips, Temptations |
Written by NHA: An effective approach when temptation strikes Ugh. You summed up the courage and wherewithal to do the right thing. You’ve purged all your beautiful clothes again. They’re all in the trash bin, and you made sure they’re irretrievable. Yet, the...
by Barnabas | Jan 23, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Temptations |
Written by NHA: A small nudge, not a big shove, brings change I find the ending of a year a fascinating thing. Ceaseless time suddenly halts! The clocks tick away, 12:59:59 December 31 becomes 12:00:00 January 1, yet one year comes at once crashing and...
by Barnabas | Jan 1, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Pornography, Practical Tips, Temptations |
“I’m curious how the trans person looks in that news article. I’ll just look at it quick then close the window.” “I’m just curious what might come up if I search on google for ‘men in dresses.’ I’ll just look at...
by Barnabas | Dec 11, 2024 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Men's Fashion, Testimonies |
Written by Guiseppe I spent the entirety of my life serving two gods, as Matthew 6:24 warns against. I had a secret life of crossdressing and gender issues that I kept hidden from a very young age. When I was young, Christ transformed my life in every way possible,...
by Barnabas | Nov 14, 2024 | Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Gender Dysphoria, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Masturbation, Sexual Pleasure |
In this post, I am not out to attack men with autogynephilia (AGP). Rather, as someone who has experienced autogynephilia myself, I write out of great compassion for guys who find themselves with desires they don’t know what to do with. A start for learning how...
by Barnabas | Sep 7, 2024 | Bible, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Pornography, Practical Tips, Temptations |
Written by Ewan: Think back to a time you were tempted. If crossdressing memories are too raw, think of something else. When you were deciding whether to act sinfully or not, did you have enough time to pause and think through what you really wanted? This post gives a...
by Barnabas | Aug 17, 2024 | Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Marriage, Temptations |
In my interactions with recovering crossdressers and their wives over the years, a certain issue has come up frequently. At times a wife may think she should stop dressing in a feminine way for fear of triggering her husband’s crossdressing desires or arousing his...
by Barnabas | Jul 25, 2024 | Crossdressing, Marriage, Practical Tips, Temptations |
In this post, I’d like to briefly share a simple strategy for fighting temptation to crossdress. I have in mind the experience of the majority of the guys in my recovery group. Most of these men are married, and they have already purged their female clothing....
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