Orientation and Addiction

Orientation and Addiction

The longer I have this website and try my best to care for and help other men, the more I realize the importance of making a distinction between a harmful sexual addiction and an unwanted sexual orientation. The two are very different things, and yet I would like to...
Book Recommendation – Autoheterosexual: Attracted to Being the Other Sex

Book Recommendation – Autoheterosexual: Attracted to Being the Other Sex

I would like to recommend the book Autoheterosexual: Attracted to Being the Other Sex written by Phil Illy, himself an autoheterosexual, more specifically someone who experiences autogynephilia, just like I do. (I recommend this book with some strong reservations,...

Ray Blanchard – History of Autogynephilia

Most of my posts on this website are written from my Christian perspective on crossdressing, but sometimes it is helpful to delve into what secular researchers and psychiatrists have discovered about crossdressing. I’d like to share here an article written by...
Guest Post – Breaking Free, Part 2: Top 10 Lies of the Crossdressing Addict

Guest Post – Breaking Free, Part 2: Top 10 Lies of the Crossdressing Addict

Written by Simon:   While I finished reading “Breaking Free” several months back, several fundamental ideas that speak to my CD life for all these years still resonate and are useful in my ongoing recovery.  In this post I want to reflect on some lies...
Informal Research Findings

Informal Research Findings

Earlier this year I tried to do some informal research through a survey with ex-crossdressers in this community, both Christian and non-Christian. My sample size is very small, so I realize the results are not able to hold up to scientific scrutiny. Nevertheless, the...
Guest Post – Breaking Free, Part 2: Top 10 Lies of the Crossdressing Addict

Guest Post – Breaking Free, Part 1: The Myth of No-Fault Victimization

Written by Simon:   I recently started Christian counseling about my sexual brokenness and have begun reading through Breaking Free by Russell Willingham.  As is also true for many of those I’ve talked to, this issue has been with us since our youth and...