Orientation and Addiction

Orientation and Addiction

The longer I have this website and try my best to care for and help other men, the more I realize the importance of making a distinction between a harmful sexual addiction and an unwanted sexual orientation. The two are very different things, and yet I would like to...

Ray Blanchard – History of Autogynephilia

Most of my posts on this website are written from my Christian perspective on crossdressing, but sometimes it is helpful to delve into what secular researchers and psychiatrists have discovered about crossdressing. I’d like to share here an article written by...
Informal Research Findings

Informal Research Findings

Earlier this year I tried to do some informal research through a survey with ex-crossdressers in this community, both Christian and non-Christian. My sample size is very small, so I realize the results are not able to hold up to scientific scrutiny. Nevertheless, the...
Guest Post – Breaking Free, Part 1: The Myth of No-Fault Victimization

Guest Post – Breaking Free, Part 1: The Myth of No-Fault Victimization

Written by Simon:   I recently started Christian counseling about my sexual brokenness and have begun reading through Breaking Free by Russell Willingham.  As is also true for many of those I’ve talked to, this issue has been with us since our youth and...
Guest Post – An Atheist’s 12 Steps to Stop Crossdressing

Guest Post – An Atheist’s 12 Steps to Stop Crossdressing

An Atheist’s 12 Steps to Stop Crossdressing Introduction – Some of my readers may wonder why I, Barnabas, as a Christian pastor running this very clearly Christian website, would publish a guest post by an atheist. Let me explain. I have not given up my...
Ex-Crossdressers Answer Wives of Crossdressers’ Questions

Ex-Crossdressers Answer Wives of Crossdressers’ Questions

In this post are questions asked by wives in the Private Wives Group which is a support and prayer group for wives of crossdressers. The questions are answered by a few ex-crossdressers from the Christian Recovery Group. The wives have very diverse experiences ranging...
What Causes People to Change?

What Causes People to Change?

Change is hard. What causes a crossdresser to make a decision to stop crossdressing? And for crossdressers who successfully stop and find happiness without crossdressing in their life, what is it that helped them to change? What is it that allows people to overcome...
Watch the Film – Tranzformed

Watch the Film – Tranzformed

I wholeheartedly suggest watching the film made by Pure Passion called Tranzformed: Finding Peace With Your God-Given Gender. There are 15 different people who give testimonies throughout this documentary film, and I found it incredibly moving. They are some of the...