Orientation and Addiction

Orientation and Addiction

The longer I have this website and try my best to care for and help other men, the more I realize the importance of making a distinction between a harmful sexual addiction and an unwanted sexual orientation. The two are very different things, and yet I would like to...

Ray Blanchard – History of Autogynephilia

Most of my posts on this website are written from my Christian perspective on crossdressing, but sometimes it is helpful to delve into what secular researchers and psychiatrists have discovered about crossdressing. I’d like to share here an article written by...
Informal Research Findings

Informal Research Findings

Earlier this year I tried to do some informal research through a survey with ex-crossdressers in this community, both Christian and non-Christian. My sample size is very small, so I realize the results are not able to hold up to scientific scrutiny. Nevertheless, the...
Guest Post – Breaking Free, Part 1: The Myth of No-Fault Victimization

Guest Post – Breaking Free, Part 1: The Myth of No-Fault Victimization

Written by Simon:   I recently started Christian counseling about my sexual brokenness and have begun reading through Breaking Free by Russell Willingham.  As is also true for many of those I’ve talked to, this issue has been with us since our youth and...
Post-Crossdressing Marital Sexual Difficulties

Post-Crossdressing Marital Sexual Difficulties

As people visit this website and ask for my advice, one of the most common struggles reported is difficulty during sex in marriage even after crossdressing has been left behind. This can be for many reasons. One of the most common is that wives feel betrayed and hurt...
Guest Post – An Atheist’s 12 Steps to Stop Crossdressing

Guest Post – An Atheist’s 12 Steps to Stop Crossdressing

An Atheist’s 12 Steps to Stop Crossdressing Introduction – Some of my readers may wonder why I, Barnabas, as a Christian pastor running this very clearly Christian website, would publish a guest post by an atheist. Let me explain. I have not given up my...