by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Autogynephilia, Autosexuality, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Origins of the Desires, Suffering |
How much of our crossdressing desire is related to having been rejected by girls when we were younger? I don’t know the answer for sure, but it seems rejection could have some part to play in developing autogynephilia. If real girls rejected you, why not create...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Idolatry, Marriage, Prayer, Suffering, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author This article is written by TJ. This is TJ’s first guest post. TJ says about himself – “I first became exposed to crossdressing when I was 16 years old, and for many years used underwear mostly as a tool for sexual relief. But I had...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Identity, My Personal Journey, Prayer, Suffering |
In my struggle with crossdressing, many Bible verses have been helpful to me. I’ve studied them, memorized some of them, and often read them after failures. I’ll periodically mention and comment on some of them and how they relate to our fight with sexual...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, My Personal Journey, Prayer, Suffering, Temptations |
According to many crossdressers online, it is impossible for us to ever lose our crossdressing desires. According to many Christians, our crossdressing desires (or other sinful desires) will go away as soon as we pray and ask God to take them away. I disagree with...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Suffering, Temptations |
I wrote this during the season of Lent right before Good Friday. During Lent and Good Friday in particular, we celebrate the work of Jesus on the cross for us to take away the punishment for our sins, and give us total forgiveness. What a wonderful merciful God we...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Prayer, Suffering |
Sometimes, our website statistics data shows what search terms people type in on search engines to bring them to this website. Some of the search terms are very interesting. Sometimes people accidentally find their way to our website through random phrases about...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Idolatry, Marriage, Masturbation, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Suffering, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author Anonymous TO WHOM THE LORD LOVES I am a 57 year old, former minister and I want to tell you my story and how the Lord opened my eyes to the destructiveness of cross-dressing. I tried to keep it simple and not belabor it, but unfortunately it is...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Sexual Pleasure, Suffering, Temptations |
In my struggle with crossdressing, many Bible verses have been helpful to me. I’ve studied them, memorized some of them, and often read them after failures. I’ll periodically mention and comment on some of them and how they relate to our fight with sexual...
by Barnabas | May 4, 2018 | Additional Resources, Church, Crossdressing, Gender Stereotypes, Identity, Suffering, Transgender |
I recently read the book, “God and the Transgender Debate: What Does the Bible Actually Say About Gender Identity,” by Andrew Walker. I didn’t know anything about Andrew Walker until the Gospel Coalition recommended his book. You can read about him here – About. I...
Thanks Mike!
Kinda amusing to see that I'm not the only CDer who rolls their eyes at being labeled as "homosexual".
A great example of how God can change our hearts and guide us back onto the path He wants us…
The last paragraph has a great illustration of Hebrews 13:4. God desires the best for us. Why would 1 of…
Mike thank you for the post here! I will send you an email
I have struggled w the sin of cross-dressing. The more I leave it in the past by God's grace, the…
I encourage you and your wife to keep reading posts to understand these things better. For example, if your wife…
Thanks David for sharing your story. I do believe we can help you with the crossdressing. About your marriage, that…