by Barnabas | Mar 30, 2026 | Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Gender Dysphoria, My Personal Journey, Suffering, Temptations |
Take some time this week to deeply reflect on the wonder and power of Jesus’ resurrection. It is not just some theoretical principle that we have to believe in. It is a reality which should fundamentally change our lives! Something to reflect on daily, not just...
by Barnabas | Jan 22, 2026 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Bible, Forgiveness, Marriage, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography |
I would like to recommend the book Rescue Plan: Charting a Course to Restore Prisoners of Pornography. I will also share some quotations from the book and some of my reflections. This is one of the better books I have read on sexual addiction from a Christian...
by Barnabas | Nov 20, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage |
Broken marriage and betrayal is one of the biggest issues we face in this ministry. Many wives come to us because they have just found out about their husband’s trans porn, crossdressing, or feminine alter identity. Usually they have found out not because their...
by Barnabas | Aug 25, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Guest Posts |
TITLE: ADDICTION AND THE THREE WILLS OF GOD Subtitle: Understanding God’s will and yours amidst addiction By: NHA, Leadership Team Member Choice. What a concept. That mental faculty encompassing your ability to consciously choose, decide, and direct your actions...
by Barnabas | Mar 6, 2025 | Accountability, Bible, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Gender Dysphoria, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, My Personal Journey |
An acquaintance named John once commented on this site – “One of the sad things about crossdressing websites is that it is so often men connecting with men while hiding behind a female moniker or name. I think there is something to that which goes deeper...
by Barnabas | Feb 13, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Guest Posts, Practical Tips, Temptations |
Written by NHA: An effective approach when temptation strikes Ugh. You summed up the courage and wherewithal to do the right thing. You’ve purged all your beautiful clothes again. They’re all in the trash bin, and you made sure they’re irretrievable. Yet, the...
by Barnabas | Jan 23, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Temptations |
Written by NHA: A small nudge, not a big shove, brings change I find the ending of a year a fascinating thing. Ceaseless time suddenly halts! The clocks tick away, 12:59:59 December 31 becomes 12:00:00 January 1, yet one year comes at once crashing and...
by Barnabas | Jan 1, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Pornography, Practical Tips, Temptations |
“I’m curious how the trans person looks in that news article. I’ll just look at it quick then close the window.” “I’m just curious what might come up if I search on google for ‘men in dresses.’ I’ll just look at...
by Barnabas | Dec 11, 2024 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Men's Fashion, Testimonies |
Written by Guiseppe I spent the entirety of my life serving two gods, as Matthew 6:24 warns against. I had a secret life of crossdressing and gender issues that I kept hidden from a very young age. When I was young, Christ transformed my life in every way possible,...
by Barnabas | Sep 7, 2024 | Bible, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Pornography, Practical Tips, Temptations |
Written by Ewan: Think back to a time you were tempted. If crossdressing memories are too raw, think of something else. When you were deciding whether to act sinfully or not, did you have enough time to pause and think through what you really wanted? This post gives a...
by Barnabas | Jun 20, 2024 | Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Practical Tips, Temptations |
Written by Ewan So, you want to act out, do you? Here’s an assertion that is worth examining: in any given moment, we only do what we want to do. At first sight it does not appear so, because so often there are things we have to do whether we want to or...
by Barnabas | May 15, 2024 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Bible, Church, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Identity, Idolatry, Practical Tips, Prayer, Psychologists, Singleness, Suffering, Temptations, Testimonies, Transgender |
If you are here reading this post, maybe you are feeling utterly depressed because of your autogynephilia or gender dysphoria. Maybe you are full of guilt, or maybe you feel anxiety and great pain from unfulfilled longing. Or maybe you are feeling hopeless and full of...
by Barnabas | Apr 26, 2024 | Addiction, Bible, Guest Posts, Suffering, Temptations |
By NHA: The valley of the shadow…Psalm 23:4. Painting by Frederic Edwin Church. ————————— I’ve been fighting the toughest battle of my life. Weak spots in my defense system have been exposed, and as a result, I have been experiencing anxiety on a level...
by Barnabas | Mar 19, 2024 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Bible, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, My Personal Journey, Paraphilias, Pornography, Practical Tips, Sexual Pleasure, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations |
The longer I have tried to care for and help other men, the more I realize the importance of making a distinction between a harmful sexual addiction and an unwanted sexual orientation (for an explanation about why I am using the term “sexual orientation”,...
by Barnabas | Oct 27, 2023 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Church, Guest Posts |
By Jack: You can’t do recovery alone. I have never heard of a program that says, don’t talk to anyone. Don’t tell anyone about your journey. I think most people accept this. However, many people think when we go on a journey to find God we should strike out...
by Barnabas | Sep 12, 2023 | Bible, Church, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Marriage, Testimonies |
Written by Simon I can remember my conversion experience vividly even though it was over 30 years ago. Here’s a brief testimony of the grace and faithfulness of our God in my life… I grew up as the youngest of several siblings in a...
by Barnabas | May 22, 2023 | Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Marriage, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure |
Written by Norvic Over the last few months, I’ve discovered a new favourite Bible book- the Song of Songs. It’s not one that tends to be preached or read as much as others, but as I’ve studied it, I’ve become convinced that it’s a book that deserves the...
by Barnabas | Jan 24, 2023 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Filters and Security, Forgiveness, Guest Posts |
By Ewan Since my last post about relapse, I stated that we need to be very aware that they could happen. This might not sound like good news, because when we are healing we want to keep moving forward. Saying that a relapse could happen does not sound very...
by Barnabas | Oct 19, 2022 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Masturbation |
Written by William When I decided to take the SAST test the first time, I was curious to find out how much I was thinking about sex and how much it was consuming my time. It was obvious that I had an obsession and the test showed that I am a sex addict....
by Barnabas | Sep 22, 2022 | Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Identity, Temptations |
By Simon I have read Barnabas’ blog post on What Causes People to Change and I’ve been thinking about rewards and consequences for promoting change in our behavior. I also read through the Transvestic Career Path and thought about the fourth...
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