by Barnabas | May 3, 2025 | Accountability, Crossdressing, Gender Stereotypes, Guest Posts, Marriage, Testimonies |
Written by NHA I struggled with crossdressing (CD) for many years. I kept it a secret from everyone. My wife, Lisa, may have had an inkling that I crossdressed now and then, but it had been many years since I admitted it when she noticed fuzz from her velvet...
by Barnabas | Feb 13, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Guest Posts, Practical Tips, Temptations |
Written by NHA: An effective approach when temptation strikes Ugh. You summed up the courage and wherewithal to do the right thing. You’ve purged all your beautiful clothes again. They’re all in the trash bin, and you made sure they’re irretrievable. Yet, the...
by Barnabas | Jan 23, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Temptations |
Written by NHA: A small nudge, not a big shove, brings change I find the ending of a year a fascinating thing. Ceaseless time suddenly halts! The clocks tick away, 12:59:59 December 31 becomes 12:00:00 January 1, yet one year comes at once crashing and...
by Barnabas | Dec 11, 2024 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Men's Fashion, Testimonies |
Written by Guiseppe I spent the entirety of my life serving two gods, as Matthew 6:24 warns against. I had a secret life of crossdressing and gender issues that I kept hidden from a very young age. When I was young, Christ transformed my life in every way possible,...
by Barnabas | Oct 3, 2024 | Accountability, Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Guest Posts, Psychologists, Sexual Pleasure, Testimonies, Transgender |
My Story – Written by Matthias Hello! My name is Matthias, and I would like to thank Barnabas for allowing me to write a guest post to share my story. If this feels like it’s intended for a broader audience, it’s because it is. I’m planning to go public with...
by Barnabas | Sep 7, 2024 | Bible, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Pornography, Practical Tips, Temptations |
Written by Ewan: Think back to a time you were tempted. If crossdressing memories are too raw, think of something else. When you were deciding whether to act sinfully or not, did you have enough time to pause and think through what you really wanted? This post gives a...
by Barnabas | Jun 20, 2024 | Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Practical Tips, Temptations |
Written by Ewan So, you want to act out, do you? Here’s an assertion that is worth examining: in any given moment, we only do what we want to do. At first sight it does not appear so, because so often there are things we have to do whether we want to or...
by Barnabas | Apr 26, 2024 | Addiction, Bible, Guest Posts, Suffering, Temptations |
By NHA: The valley of the shadow…Psalm 23:4. Painting by Frederic Edwin Church. ————————— I’ve been fighting the toughest battle of my life. Weak spots in my defense system have been exposed, and as a result, I have been experiencing anxiety on a level...
by Barnabas | Feb 21, 2024 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing |
Written by JH In regards to sin of any kind, many people ask the question “How far is too far?” I remember this being a question asked growing up in regards to sex. How far can I go and still be good spiritually? How far can I go and still be a virgin? I think...
by Barnabas | Jan 30, 2024 | Addiction, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts |
Written by Jack In the fight with addiction, I tend to focus on my failures and not give God thanks for the many successes that I have. If I slip up, I can get frustrated or disheartened. But God calls us to focus on his blessings. Whenever the tribes of Israel...
by Barnabas | Dec 19, 2023 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Suffering, Temptations |
Written by Simon I’ve been working through some key ideas I’ve considered these past 14 months in my efforts to stay sober and continue to walk out of the CD darkness. Several of them come from the book Unwanted by Jay Stringer where he makes the...
by Barnabas | Oct 27, 2023 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Guest Posts |
By Jack: You can’t do recovery alone. I have never heard of a program that says, don’t talk to anyone. Don’t tell anyone about your journey. I think most people accept this. However, many people think when we go on a journey to find God we should strike out...
by Barnabas | Oct 3, 2023 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Identity |
Written by NHA ADDICTION, PART 1: “You’re an addict,” said my daughter, with a mischievous smile. I shuttered. Does she know? I played innocent. “An addict? Yeah right. Of what?” “Chocolate. You couldn’t go a day...
by Barnabas | Sep 12, 2023 | Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Marriage, Testimonies |
Written by Simon I can remember my conversion experience vividly even though it was over 30 years ago. Here’s a brief testimony of the grace and faithfulness of our God in my life… I grew up as the youngest of several siblings in a...
by Barnabas | Aug 15, 2023 | Additional Resources, Gender Stereotypes, Guest Posts, Transgender |
Written by Jack Jason Evert is a Christian chastity speaker who has been speaking at high schools and churches across the country and overseas for 20 years. He has spoken to youth at over 3,000 institutions worldwide. In his ministry, he has been seeing the...
by Barnabas | Jul 11, 2023 | Addiction, Guest Posts, Prayer |
Written by Jack C.S. Lewis wrote, “Enemy-occupied territory — that is what this world is. Christianity is the story of how the rightful king has landed, you might say landed in disguise, and is calling us all to take part in a great campaign of...
by Barnabas | May 22, 2023 | Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Marriage, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure |
Written by Norvic Over the last few months, I’ve discovered a new favourite Bible book- the Song of Songs. It’s not one that tends to be preached or read as much as others, but as I’ve studied it, I’ve become convinced that it’s a book that deserves the...
by Barnabas | Apr 28, 2023 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Masturbation, Origins of the Desires, Testimonies |
Written by Simon: While I finished reading “Breaking Free” several months back, several fundamental ideas that speak to my CD life for all these years still resonate and are useful in my ongoing recovery. In this post I want to reflect on some lies...
by Barnabas | Apr 3, 2023 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Cultural Ideologies and Trends, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts |
Written by Jack: How many times have you heard this? You can’t quit crossdressing. It’s who you are. Don’t waste your time, embrace it. My addiction to dressing led me to spend a lot of time online talking with other CDs and this was a constant theme. I...
by Barnabas | Mar 13, 2023 | Accountability, Addiction, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Filters and Security, Guest Posts, Practical Tips, Temptations |
Written by Ewan: Last time we looked at the relationship between relapse and hope. I discussed how there is hope in what we can learn from them. Hope can inspire, hope can drive us, hope can motivate and fill us with a good urge to act. To do something! The...
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