by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Masturbation, Pornography, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure |
Think about what you feel after you finish crossdressing. I’m sure it’s not like this for all crossdressers, but for many there are feelings of shame, disgust, and feeling dirty right after crossdressing. From talking to so many crossdressers over the...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Identity, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Paraphilias, Pornography, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations, Transgender, Transgender Fiction |
Struggling with autogynephilia or transvestic fetishism can take different forms. It does not always involve real women’s clothing. Sometimes, perhaps most of the time, it is actually an issue of our heads and our hearts. The most common way of acting on our...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Masturbation, Origins of the Desires, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure |
Looking over search terms of people who have found my website, one that has come up a few times is very interesting – “crossdressing to be the woman my wife isn’t.” Now whoever wrote that, I apologize to you. I don’t know what exactly you mean, don’t know what...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Forgiveness, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Paraphilias, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
Over the years, God has used me to counsel many men who were addicted to pornography, both guys addicted to trans porn or guys struggling with regular heterosexual porn. I have found that there are actually a lot of similarities between struggling with autogynephilia,...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, My Personal Journey, Practical Tips, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
A friend once noted the importance of making affirmations in order to overcome crossdressing. His point was to make declarations about yourself and to yourself. I don’t believe we can change reality only by our thoughts. I would not tell myself an affirmation...
Thanks Mike!
Kinda amusing to see that I'm not the only CDer who rolls their eyes at being labeled as "homosexual".
A great example of how God can change our hearts and guide us back onto the path He wants us…
The last paragraph has a great illustration of Hebrews 13:4. God desires the best for us. Why would 1 of…
Mike thank you for the post here! I will send you an email
I have struggled w the sin of cross-dressing. The more I leave it in the past by God's grace, the…
I encourage you and your wife to keep reading posts to understand these things better. For example, if your wife…
Thanks David for sharing your story. I do believe we can help you with the crossdressing. About your marriage, that…