by Barnabas | Jan 21, 2022 | Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Pornography, Sexual Pleasure, Transgender Fiction |
It occurred to me recently that a part of our recovery and healing process as former crossdressers should be to examine our hearts to specifically repent of our sexism, and ask God to transform our hearts and minds. Why do I say this? My experience with crossdressing...
by Barnabas | Sep 14, 2018 | Crossdressing, Marriage, Men's Fashion, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
One night, many years ago, my wife wanted me to put on an apron so that I didn’t ruin my clothes with oil splattering from the food we were cooking. The only apron we had was hers, and while it was not overly feminine, it was feminine enough. Therefore, I...
by Barnabas | Sep 14, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Pornography, Prayer, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
In 2 Samuel chapters 11-12, we read the story of David committing adultery with Bathsheba. And then, to cover up his sin, he found a way to have Uriah, Bathsheba’s husband, killed. Finally, God sent the prophet Nathan to challenge and rebuke David. In the end,...
by Barnabas | Aug 12, 2018 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Biological Sex Differences, Biological Transgender Issues, Crossdressing, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Identity, Origins of the Desires, Paraphilias, Psychologists, Sexual Pleasure, Transgender, Transgender Fiction |
I recommend to you all the book, “The Man Who Would be Queen: The Science of Gender-Bending and Transsexualism,” by J. Michael Bailey. It is FREE to read online. I thought it was an excellent read and is definitely one of the more helpful books/articles...
by Barnabas | Jul 10, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Origins of the Desires, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
I have to admit that when I think about crossdressing, I can come up with certain good qualities about it. This may surprise you to hear me say this. But it’s true. And these good qualities were often the things that tripped me up and got me to rationalize...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Identity, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Pornography, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Transgender, Transgender Fiction |
I wanted to write about a manifestation of my crossdressing addiction that is really important for you to hear about because many of you have probably struggled with the same thing. In the past, when I was addicted to crossdressing, it might be more accurate to say I...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Guest Posts, Masturbation, Pornography, Practical Tips, Temptations, Testimonies, Transgender Fiction |
About the Author By Andrew – See Andrew’s Testimony XXXchurch.com Can you imagine a website where prostitutes are prayed for and where pornography is not heralded as a first amendment right? Welcome to XXXchurch.com. I invite all who seek to be...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Forgiveness, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
Over the years, God has used me to counsel quite a number of men who were addicted to pornography. In addition, I’ve had the privilege of having many good accountability partners throughout my life, a couple of whom struggled with pornography. I have found that...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
If you know your Bible stories, you know that there is some really dark depressing stuff in the Bible. There are some stories of detestable actions people have committed. Not only are these stories true and interesting to read for that reason alone, but through them...
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