by Barnabas | Jul 13, 2018 | Biological Transgender Issues, Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Identity, Intersexual Conditions, Sexual Pleasure, Transgender |
It is difficult to keep up with all the changing labels and terminology for LGBT people today. Some people have already added several letters to the LGBT. And isn’t it Facebook that gives you 50 choices for your sex on your profile? I think all these labels are...
by Barnabas | Jul 10, 2018 | Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Identity, Singleness, Transgender |
This was an interesting blog post I came across – The Hypocrisy of the Gay Community in America….Antoine Dobson/Jason Collins. I don’t claim to agree with everything in the post. However, I resonated with the main point. As the author points out,...
by Barnabas | Jun 14, 2018 | Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Marriage, Pornography, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
I am frustrated with crossdressers for expecting or even hoping for their wives to act as lesbians. If you are a Christian who believes that homosexual behavior is sinful, then trying to get your wife to act this way with you (while you are crossdressed) is...
by Barnabas | Jun 12, 2018 | Additional Resources, Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Gender Stereotypes, Homosexuality, Identity, Origins of the Desires, Temptations, Transgender |
The Bible doesn’t say a lot about crossdressing and autogynephilia, but it says more about homosexuality. How can understanding homosexuality and the Bible’s view of it help us to understand better how to think about crossdressing? A friend sent me an...
by Barnabas | Jun 12, 2018 | Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Identity, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations, Transgender |
Our culture very much values freedom and freewill. It’s basically the supreme American value. And that is why I am so often completely stunned that people quickly deny their own freedom, in order to rationalize their behavior. It doesn’t make sense to me....
by Barnabas | Jun 12, 2018 | Additional Resources, Bible, Crossdressing, Homosexuality |
One of the things that I have come across often in conversations about crossdressing or homosexuality (and many other controversial issues), is the charge that Christians just pick and choose what they want to follow from the Bible. Non-Christians (and even some...
by Barnabas | Jun 11, 2018 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Bible, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Marriage, Masturbation, Pornography, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Singleness, Temptations |
Whew, this is a heavy and personal topic, but I think it needs to be addressed. Is masturbation okay for a Christian? Or is it sinful? This is a long debate and I don’t have all the answers, but I’ve thought a lot about. In fact, my views about it have...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Accountability, Additional Resources, Bible, Church, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Homosexuality, Law and Policy |
This is one of the most well known statements of Jesus, and I find it is often thrown back at Christians by non-Christians. Non-Christians feel judged by Christians and they think Christians are largely hypocrites who are ignoring the very commands of their Lord. The...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Identity, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Paraphilias, Pornography, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations, Transgender, Transgender Fiction |
Struggling with autogynephilia or transvestic fetishism can take different forms. It does not always involve real women’s clothing. Sometimes, perhaps most of the time, it is actually an issue of our heads and our hearts. The most common way of acting on our...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Forgiveness, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Paraphilias, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
Over the years, God has used me to counsel many men who were addicted to pornography, both guys addicted to trans porn or guys struggling with regular heterosexual porn. I have found that there are actually a lot of similarities between struggling with autogynephilia,...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Additional Resources, Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Gender Roles, Homosexuality, Idolatry, Intersexual Conditions, Sexual Pleasure, Transgender |
Introduction If you have not read my post on How to Interpret the Bible, it is important that you read that post first as this builds on everything I have written there. As a pastor writing about my past with crossdressing, I feel like this is probably the most...
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