by Barnabas | Jun 14, 2018 | Crossdressing, Cultural Ideologies and Trends, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Marriage, Pornography, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
I am frustrated with myself and other crossdressers for expecting or even ever once having a hope for our wives to act as lesbians. If you are a Christian and believe homosexual behavior is sinful, than trying to get your wife to act this way with you (while you are...
by Barnabas | Jun 13, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Envy, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Idolatry, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Transgender |
Crossdressing seems a lot like the rat race of trying to get rich. Those who are consumed with getting rich keep on trying and trying, but never are happy, and never are satisfied. They might even gain a lot of money but there is always one more person to compare...
by Barnabas | Jun 12, 2018 | Additional Resources, Bible, Crossdressing, Cultural Ideologies and Trends, Forgiveness, Gender Stereotypes, Homosexuality, Identity, Origins of the Desires, Temptations, Transgender |
The Bible doesn’t say a lot about crossdressing, but it says more about homosexuality. How can understanding homosexuality and the Bible’s view of it help us to understand better how to think about crossdressing? A friend sent me this resource, an article...
by Barnabas | Jun 12, 2018 | Crossdressing, Cultural Ideologies and Trends, Homosexuality, Identity, Temptations, Transgender |
Our culture very much values freedom and freewill. It’s basically the supreme American value (probably for Europeans too). And that is why I am so often completely stunned that people quickly deny their own freedom, in order to rationalize their behavior. It...
by Barnabas | Jun 12, 2018 | Additional Resources, Bible, Crossdressing, Cultural Ideologies and Trends, Homosexuality |
One of the things that I have come across often in conversations about crossdressing or homosexuality (and many other controversial issues), is the charge that Christians just pick and choose what they want to follow from the Bible. Non-Christians (and even some...
by Barnabas | Jun 11, 2018 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Bible, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Marriage, Masturbation, Pornography, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
Whew, this is a heavy and personal topic, but I think it needs to be addressed. Is masturbation okay for a Christian? Or is it sinful? This is a long debate and I don’t have all the answers, but I’ve thought a lot about. In fact, my views about it have...
by Barnabas | May 12, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Cultural Ideologies and Trends, Envy, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Homosexuality, Marriage, Masturbation, Sexual Intercourse |
I’m sure there are about 20 different links with information like this, but I used the one I found most quickly – here. It’s not my intention to attack this website. Not at all. I don’t know the person who made the site. I can tell that they...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Accountability, Additional Resources, Bible, Crossdressing, Cultural Ideologies and Trends, Forgiveness, Homosexuality, Law and Policy |
This is one of the most well known statements of Jesus, and I find it is often thrown back at Christians by non-Christians. Non-Christians feel judged by Christians and they think Christians are largely hypocrites who are ignoring the very commands of their Lord. The...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Identity, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Pornography, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Transgender, Transgender Fiction |
I wanted to write about a manifestation of my crossdressing addiction that is really important for you to hear about because many of you have probably struggled with the same thing. In the past, when I was addicted to crossdressing, it might be more accurate to say I...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Biological Sex Differences, Crossdressing, Cultural Ideologies and Trends, Embracing Manhood, Gender Stereotypes, Homosexuality |
I find it interesting to think about who finds crossdressing funny and in which contexts. There are a lot of plays, movies, books, and television shows where crossdressing comes up and often it is supposed to be comical. And much of the time when crossdressing comes...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Forgiveness, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
Over the years, God has used me to counsel quite a number of men who were addicted to pornography. In addition, I’ve had the privilege of having many good accountability partners throughout my life, a couple of whom struggled with pornography. I have found that...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Additional Resources, Bible, Crossdressing, Cultural Ideologies and Trends, Forgiveness, Gender Roles, Homosexuality, Idolatry, Intersexual Conditions, Sexual Pleasure, Transgender |
Introduction If you have not read my post on How to Interpret the Bible, it is important that you read that post first as this builds on everything I have written there. As a pastor writing about my past with crossdressing, I feel like this is probably the most...
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