by Paul Samson | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Prayer, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author By Paul, Leadership Team Member Paul’s Testimony Barnabas has recently written a blog post about what a long journey it is to find healing from crossdressing. It is! Like all addictions, CD has a stronghold on us and it takes time to...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts, Temptations |
About the Author Written by SC God’s Commitment to Us When it comes to the failure of crossdressing, many of us can say, “Been there, done that, got the T-shirt.” I’m not making light of sin, I’m just saying that we are not alone in our...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Temptations |
About the Author Written by XcdScooter Reflections on Psalm 32 A recovering cross-dresser’s reflections on Psalm 32. Please carefully read this passage of Scripture in your Bible before engaging my story. Verses 1-5 What amazing, definitive joy and blessing...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Church, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Guest Posts, Masturbation, Pornography, Practical Tips, Temptations, Testimonies, Transgender Fiction |
About the Author By Andrew – See Andrew’s Testimony XXXchurch.com Can you imagine a website where prostitutes are prayed for and where pornography is not heralded as a first amendment right? Welcome to XXXchurch.com. I invite all who seek to be...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Masturbation, Origins of the Desires, Pornography, Practical Tips, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author By Alec – see Alec’s Testimony. Alec is a recovering crossdresser who attends Sexaholics Anonymous meetings in person, over the phone, face to face, and through an email discussion group. Sexaholics Anonymous / Sex Addicts Anonymous...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Masturbation, Practical Tips, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author Written by Alec Alec’s Testimony Hello, My name is Alec. I am a recovering sex and lust addict getting my thrill through crossdressing, rather than porn or strip clubs. I basically have the same story of most 53 year old closeted...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Dreams, Forgiveness, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
Years ago, I wrote this personal post to help others who are struggling to think through fighting temptation, and how to recover from failure. 1 Corinthians 10:12 – “So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall!” As they say, pride...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, My Personal Journey, Practical Tips, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
I wrote this post years ago about a time I failed and gave in to temptation. It is always hard to write and share about failures before so many people, but when I worry about shame and guilt, I look to my Jesus who washes those feelings away by his blood, and I...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Forgiveness, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Paraphilias, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
Over the years, God has used me to counsel many men who were addicted to pornography, both guys addicted to trans porn or guys struggling with regular heterosexual porn. I have found that there are actually a lot of similarities between struggling with autogynephilia,...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Idolatry, Marriage, Prayer, Suffering, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author This article is written by TJ. This is TJ’s first guest post. TJ says about himself – “I first became exposed to crossdressing when I was 16 years old, and for many years used underwear mostly as a tool for sexual relief. But I had...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, My Personal Journey, Prayer, Suffering, Temptations |
According to many crossdressers online, it is impossible for us to ever lose our crossdressing desires. According to many Christians, our crossdressing desires (or other sinful desires) will go away as soon as we pray and ask God to take them away. I disagree with...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Suffering, Temptations |
I wrote this during the season of Lent right before Good Friday. During Lent and Good Friday in particular, we celebrate the work of Jesus on the cross for us to take away the punishment for our sins, and give us total forgiveness. What a wonderful merciful God we...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
If you know your Bible stories, you know that there is some really dark depressing stuff in the Bible. There are some stories of detestable actions people have committed. Not only are these stories true and interesting to read for that reason alone, but through them...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, My Personal Journey, Practical Tips, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
A friend once noted the importance of making affirmations in order to overcome crossdressing. His point was to make declarations about yourself and to yourself. I don’t believe we can change reality only by our thoughts. I would not tell myself an affirmation...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Idolatry, Marriage, Masturbation, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Suffering, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author Anonymous TO WHOM THE LORD LOVES I am a 57 year old, former minister and I want to tell you my story and how the Lord opened my eyes to the destructiveness of cross-dressing. I tried to keep it simple and not belabor it, but unfortunately it is...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Sexual Pleasure, Suffering, Temptations |
In my struggle with crossdressing, many Bible verses have been helpful to me. I’ve studied them, memorized some of them, and often read them after failures. I’ll periodically mention and comment on some of them and how they relate to our fight with sexual...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Masturbation, Pornography, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author This guest post is written by Job, a first time author here at the blog. Here is some information about the author – Job is a 32 years old web designer from México who surrendered to the Lord Jesus at the age of 29 after about 20 years of...
by Barnabas | May 4, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Filters and Security, Forgiveness, Marriage, Practical Tips, Prayer, Purges of Clothing, Temptations |
In my struggle with crossdressing, many Bible verses have been helpful to me. I’ve studied them, memorized some of them, and often read them after failures. I’ll periodically mention and comment on some of them and how they relate to our fight with sexual...
by Barnabas | May 4, 2018 | Addiction, Autogynephilia, Bible, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Idolatry, Marriage, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
Indulging autogynephilia or a crossdressing addiction makes so many demands on us. It consumes us and enslaves us, just as all idols and addictions do. What I’ve seen is that the more you give in to the demands that the crossdressing addiction makes on you, the...
by Barnabas | May 4, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, My Personal Journey, Practical Tips, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
Physical warnings against sin are a part of my story I’d like to share about it in order to help the rest of you pay attention to your body and the warnings from the Holy Spirit. I noticed many years ago that when I would be tempted to fail with sexual sin, and...
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