by Barnabas | Jun 8, 2018 | Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Identity, Prayer |
This song has been a welcome light in my journey of accepting myself as the man that God has made me to be. It might be helpful to the rest of you as you struggle to live in your identity as a man, and fight your urges to crossdress. The song is not directly about...
by Barnabas | Jun 6, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Bible, Biological Sex Differences, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Embracing Manhood, Filters and Security, Forgiveness, Gender Roles, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Men's Fashion, Origins of the Desires, Practical Tips, Prayer, Psychologists, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Intercourse, Temptations, Transgender |
I thought it would be helpful to compile a list of good beginning steps for those who want to give up crossdressing (or other autogynephilic related behaviors) for good. This is just a starting point for those who wish to stop crossdressing completely. Stopping...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Marriage, Masturbation, Men's Fashion, Origins of the Desires, Pornography, Practical Tips, Psychologists, Sexual Pleasure, Testimonies |
About the Author By Ewan Becoming a Man What do you do to relax on a Friday night? Have a drink? Watch the telly? See a show? Much to the bemusement of my wife, recently I chose to polish my shoes. No matter how hard I tried to explain why I enjoyed it, my wife...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Biological Sex Differences, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Gender Stereotypes, Homosexuality |
I find it interesting to think about who finds crossdressing funny and in which contexts. There are a lot of plays, movies, books, and television shows where crossdressing comes up and often it is supposed to be comical. And much of the time when crossdressing comes...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Origins of the Desires |
How much of our crossdressing desire is related to having been rejected by girls when we were younger? Or for some of us, how much of our ongoing crossdressing failures are related to smaller rejections by our girlfriends or wives today? So many of you men that I’ve...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Autogynephilia, Autosexuality, Bible, Biological Sex Differences, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Envy, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Men's Fashion, My Personal Journey, Origins of the Desires, Transgender |
Proverbs 14:30 – A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones. When we reflect on the nature of crossdressing desires, whether its transvestic fetishism or autogynephilia, we can see that a significant component is envy or coveting....
by Barnabas | May 4, 2018 | Addiction, Autogynephilia, Bible, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Idolatry, Marriage, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
Indulging autogynephilia or a crossdressing addiction makes so many demands on us. It consumes us and enslaves us, just as all idols and addictions do. What I’ve seen is that the more you give in to the demands that the crossdressing addiction makes on you, the...
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