by Barnabas | Jul 17, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Masturbation, Practical Tips, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
We need to do whatever it takes to quit crossdressing and fight temptation. Here is a practical tip that may help you. I did a writing exercise once that was helpful to me. A television show reminded me of how kids used to do the discipline activity of writing...
by Barnabas | Jul 17, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Marriage, Practical Tips, Prayer, Purges of Clothing, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations |
A lot of people say they have tried to quit crossdressing or sissy hypnosis. Some even say they have tried everything. In some cases, I believe it. It can be really tough to overcome addiction even when you ask for help. But many of these people have not really tried....
by Barnabas | Jul 16, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Practical Tips, Temptations |
Psalm 144:1 Praise be to the Lord my Rock, who trains my hands for war, my fingers for battle. I love this verse for thinking about spiritual warfare and avoiding sin while on the computer. Originally the context was speaking about actual war as King David relied on...
by Barnabas | Jul 16, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dreams, Forgiveness, Origins of the Desires, Prayer, Suffering, Temptations |
In my struggle with crossdressing, many Bible verses have been helpful to me. I’ve studied them, memorized some of them, and often read them after failures. I’ll periodically mention and comment on some of them and how they relate to our fight with sexual sin. For...
by Barnabas | Jul 16, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Idolatry, Men's Fashion |
In my struggle with crossdressing, many Bible verses have been helpful to me. I’ve studied them, memorized some of them, and often read them after failures. I’ll periodically mention and comment on some of them and how they relate to our fight with sexual sin. For...
by Barnabas | Jul 16, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
In a few days it will be Halloween. I post a reminder at this time every year. I know firsthand that it is a time of vigorous temptation. Even just seeing other people or children getting into costumes can conjure up memories of crossdressing, or fresh desires to...
by Barnabas | Jul 16, 2018 | Additional Resources, Bible, Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Marriage, Sexual Intercourse, Transgender |
I wanted to share an article here about homosexuality. It’s seems a bit off topic, but it’s not. Through this article, I want to make an important point about crossdressing and transsexualism. The article is called Not that kind of homosexuality by Kevin...
by Barnabas | Jul 16, 2018 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Biological Transgender Issues, Crossdressing, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Origins of the Desires, Psychologists |
By OCD, I am of course referring to Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. I’ve been looking at a number of websites and articles online that talk about a connection between OCD and crossdressing. It’s very interesting to me because 1. I have OCD (self diagnosed)...
by Barnabas | Jul 16, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness |
In my struggle with crossdressing, many Bible verses have been helpful to me. I’ve studied them, memorized some of them, and often read them after failures. I’ll periodically mention and comment on some of them and how they relate to our fight with sexual sin. For...
by Barnabas | Jul 15, 2018 | Additional Resources, Biological Transgender Issues, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Law and Policy, News Articles, Transgender, Transgender Analogies (Race, Eating Disorders, BIID, Species) |
There are many parallels between those with transgender feelings and those with “transabled” feelings. These are the feelings of people who desire to have a body part amputated to be able to feel themselves and feel at peace. Because of all the transgender...
by Barnabas | Jul 15, 2018 | Biological Transgender Issues, Gender Stereotypes, Homosexuality, Identity, Transgender |
I think that transgendered individuals and transsexuals often make illogical inconsistent contrary claims. At first glance, these two opposing claims I explain below seem to support one another but I believe on closer inspection they are revealed to contradict one...
by Barnabas | Jul 15, 2018 | Biological Transgender Issues, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Psychologists, Transgender, Transgender Analogies (Race, Eating Disorders, BIID, Species) |
Those in the crossdressing community love to argue that crossdressing is a harmless hobby. Although other people in the culture find it weird, they just need more time to get used to it and see that it actually can be a fun hobby if not done to excess. Or they say...
by Barnabas | Jul 15, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Autogynephilia, Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Homosexuality, Prayer, Temptations, Testimonies |
Can God heal you or cure you from crossdressing? More specifically, can God remove your autogynephilia disposition, your cross-gender desires? Can God remove your gender discomfort? Can God remove all desire to crossdress? Yes, I believe he can do all of those things....
by Barnabas | Jul 15, 2018 | Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Law and Policy, Marriage, Suffering, Transgender |
This research study (pdf) is important to read – Suicide Attempts among Transgender and Gender Non-Conforming Adults. The study was not perfect nor were its research methodologies (as noted even in the report itself). But really, what study is perfect? This...
by Barnabas | Jul 13, 2018 | Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Identity, Marriage, Origins of the Desires, Psychologists, Transgender |
I highly suggest the article – The Transvestic Career Path – by H. Taylor Buckner. It’s an old article and some people might take offense with some of the terms or way it is written. But I find it an extremely insightful article that fits very well...
by Barnabas | Jul 13, 2018 | Biological Transgender Issues, Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Identity, Intersexual Conditions, Sexual Pleasure, Transgender |
It is difficult to keep up with all the changing labels and terminology for LGBT people today. Some people have already added several letters to the LGBT. And isn’t it Facebook that gives you 50 choices for your sex on your profile? I think all these labels are...
by Barnabas | Jul 13, 2018 | Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Identity, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
I want to counteract what I see as false advertising on the internet, even if that false advertising is unintentional. Crossdressers on internet forums and blogs make out that giving up crossdressing is a sure-fire way to be miserable and stressed out, a sure-fire way...
by Barnabas | Jul 12, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Crossdressing, Identity, Sexual Pleasure, Transgender |
Halloween is coming up, a very strange holiday, and a particularly dangerous holiday for us. I want to remind you that even if your wife, or girlfriend, or mother, or friends think dressing you up as a woman is a playful harmless thing, it is not harmless for us. For...
by Barnabas | Jul 12, 2018 | Additional Resources, Bible, Biological Transgender Issues, Identity, Transgender |
I recommend reading the very good article, Sex without bodies, in Christianity Today. A common theme in the LGBT movement is to value someone’s personality or soul and to devalue the physical body. They believe in changing the body to match what is inside,...
by Barnabas | Jul 12, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Church, Crossdressing, Gender Stereotypes, Men's Fashion, Origins of the Desires, Practical Tips, Temptations |
One of the important things to do, (that can easily be overlooked), when giving up a crossdressing alter ego, or crossdressing addiction, is to get some new hobbies. Let’s face it, crossdressing was a huge part our lives. For some of us, our crossdressed self...
Hi Rob, thank you for reaching out. Here is a good place to start - https://healingfromcrossdressing.org/12-steps-to-stop-crossdressing/ Let us know how…
I.am.strugging.with.crossdressing.
Totally agree. Let me rephrase that one sentence
Not sure I agree that satan’s battle is over our soul as that’s not negotiable as Christ Jesus has ownership…
Good to hear from you Barry, I have been wondering how you have been. If you want to rejoin the…
Hi I’m not a cross dresser but I was addicted to porn for 50 years with the last good few…
Thanks Mike!
Kinda amusing to see that I'm not the only CDer who rolls their eyes at being labeled as "homosexual".