by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Marriage, Masturbation, Men's Fashion, Origins of the Desires, Pornography, Practical Tips, Psychologists, Sexual Pleasure, Testimonies |
About the Author By Ewan Becoming a Man What do you do to relax on a Friday night? Have a drink? Watch the telly? See a show? Much to the bemusement of my wife, recently I chose to polish my shoes. No matter how hard I tried to explain why I enjoyed it, my wife...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Pornography, Practical Tips, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
For most of us who crossdressed in the past, there was some conditioning going on. We desired to crossdress, but the more we engaged in it, the more we desired it. We got some sexual pleasure from crossdressing at first, but the more we crossdressed, the more pleasure...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Identity, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Paraphilias, Pornography, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations, Transgender, Transgender Fiction |
Struggling with autogynephilia or transvestic fetishism can take different forms. It does not always involve real women’s clothing. Sometimes, perhaps most of the time, it is actually an issue of our heads and our hearts. The most common way of acting on our...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Practical Tips, Testimonies |
About the Author By Andrew – See Andrew’s Testimony Celebrate Recovery! It was between 9 and 10 years ago that my son was in a recovery program through a hospital here in Illinois. I prayed for his success and for him to come out of it clean and...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Dreams, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Temptations, Testimonies, Transgender |
About the Author By Andrew Andrew’s Testimony My name is Andrew and I have been in recovery for over 20 years from CD, sex, and lust. I have also been saved by the blood of Jesus Christ my Lord. I grew up in Chicago in a very dysfunctional home without a...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Marriage, Prayer, Purges of Clothing, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author Enjoy this helpful post written by “TemptedSinner” about his recent trials against temptation and how he dealt with it. Survived a Battle Tuesday 1/28/2016 Ok, so what does this mean? With the assistance of a spiritual director I am...
by Paul Samson | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Prayer, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author By Paul, Leadership Team Member Paul’s Testimony Barnabas has recently written a blog post about what a long journey it is to find healing from crossdressing. It is! Like all addictions, CD has a stronghold on us and it takes time to...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Church, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Guest Posts, Masturbation, Pornography, Practical Tips, Temptations, Testimonies, Transgender Fiction |
About the Author By Andrew – See Andrew’s Testimony XXXchurch.com Can you imagine a website where prostitutes are prayed for and where pornography is not heralded as a first amendment right? Welcome to XXXchurch.com. I invite all who seek to be...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Masturbation, Origins of the Desires, Pornography, Practical Tips, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author By Alec – see Alec’s Testimony. Alec is a recovering crossdresser who attends Sexaholics Anonymous meetings in person, over the phone, face to face, and through an email discussion group. Sexaholics Anonymous / Sex Addicts Anonymous...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Masturbation, Practical Tips, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author Written by Alec Alec’s Testimony Hello, My name is Alec. I am a recovering sex and lust addict getting my thrill through crossdressing, rather than porn or strip clubs. I basically have the same story of most 53 year old closeted...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Masturbation, Origins of the Desires, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure |
Looking over search terms of people who have found my website, one that has come up a few times is very interesting – “crossdressing to be the woman my wife isn’t.” Now whoever wrote that, I apologize to you. I don’t know what exactly you mean, don’t know what...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure |
Years ago, I wrote this post about a failure I had in order to help others who are also fighting crossdressing temptations. It’s important to share about some of my past failures as well as about my successes in order to truly in order to truly help others. Here...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Dreams, Forgiveness, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
Years ago, I wrote this personal post to help others who are struggling to think through fighting temptation, and how to recover from failure. 1 Corinthians 10:12 – “So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall!” As they say, pride...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, My Personal Journey, Practical Tips, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
I wrote this post years ago about a time I failed and gave in to temptation. It is always hard to write and share about failures before so many people, but when I worry about shame and guilt, I look to my Jesus who washes those feelings away by his blood, and I...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Forgiveness, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Paraphilias, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
Over the years, God has used me to counsel many men who were addicted to pornography, both guys addicted to trans porn or guys struggling with regular heterosexual porn. I have found that there are actually a lot of similarities between struggling with autogynephilia,...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Idolatry, Marriage, Prayer, Suffering, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author This article is written by TJ. This is TJ’s first guest post. TJ says about himself – “I first became exposed to crossdressing when I was 16 years old, and for many years used underwear mostly as a tool for sexual relief. But I had...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, My Personal Journey, Prayer, Suffering, Temptations |
According to many crossdressers online, it is impossible for us to ever lose our crossdressing desires. According to many Christians, our crossdressing desires (or other sinful desires) will go away as soon as we pray and ask God to take them away. I disagree with...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Prayer, Suffering |
Sometimes, our website statistics data shows what search terms people type in on search engines to bring them to this website. Some of the search terms are very interesting. Sometimes people accidentally find their way to our website through random phrases about...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Idolatry, Marriage, Masturbation, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Suffering, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author Anonymous TO WHOM THE LORD LOVES I am a 57 year old, former minister and I want to tell you my story and how the Lord opened my eyes to the destructiveness of cross-dressing. I tried to keep it simple and not belabor it, but unfortunately it is...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Masturbation, Pornography, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author This guest post is written by Job, a first time author here at the blog. Here is some information about the author – Job is a 32 years old web designer from México who surrendered to the Lord Jesus at the age of 29 after about 20 years of...
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