by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Marriage, Masturbation, Men's Fashion, Origins of the Desires, Pornography, Practical Tips, Psychologists, Sexual Pleasure, Testimonies |
About the Author By Ewan Becoming a Man What do you do to relax on a Friday night? Have a drink? Watch the telly? See a show? Much to the bemusement of my wife, recently I chose to polish my shoes. No matter how hard I tried to explain why I enjoyed it, my wife...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Accountability, Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Marriage, My Personal Journey, Practical Tips, Temptations |
In overcoming an addiction like crossdressing, trans porn, or sissy hypnosis, honesty is more important than sobriety. This is something that I stress with my accountability partners. You can’t help yourself or get help from others unless you are first honest....
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Accountability, Additional Resources, Bible, Church, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Homosexuality, Law and Policy |
This is one of the most well known statements of Jesus, and I find it is often thrown back at Christians by non-Christians. Non-Christians feel judged by Christians and they think Christians are largely hypocrites who are ignoring the very commands of their Lord. The...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Practical Tips, Testimonies |
About the Author By Andrew – See Andrew’s Testimony Celebrate Recovery! It was between 9 and 10 years ago that my son was in a recovery program through a hospital here in Illinois. I prayed for his success and for him to come out of it clean and...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Temptations |
About the Author Written by XcdScooter Reflections on Psalm 32 A recovering cross-dresser’s reflections on Psalm 32. Please carefully read this passage of Scripture in your Bible before engaging my story. Verses 1-5 What amazing, definitive joy and blessing...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Gender Stereotypes, Guest Posts, Identity, Idolatry |
About the Author By Andrew – See Andrew’s Testimony What Would God Say? I really wish that I had a nickel for every time that I asked that question. The short answer is that for me and my life, any form of cross-dressing is wrong. As is drunkenness,...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Bible, Dreams, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Prayer, Testimonies |
About the Author By Andrew – see Andrew’s Testimony A Frightening Prospect You know, there are so many good blogs out there and I enjoy writing to a lot of them. So much in fact that I don’t find the time to write much on my own blog. Partly...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure |
Years ago, I wrote this post about a failure I had in order to help others who are also fighting crossdressing temptations. It’s important to share about some of my past failures as well as about my successes in order to truly in order to truly help others. Here...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Dreams, Forgiveness, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
Years ago, I wrote this personal post to help others who are struggling to think through fighting temptation, and how to recover from failure. 1 Corinthians 10:12 – “So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall!” As they say, pride...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, My Personal Journey, Practical Tips, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
I wrote this post years ago about a time I failed and gave in to temptation. It is always hard to write and share about failures before so many people, but when I worry about shame and guilt, I look to my Jesus who washes those feelings away by his blood, and I...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Forgiveness, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Paraphilias, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
Over the years, God has used me to counsel many men who were addicted to pornography, both guys addicted to trans porn or guys struggling with regular heterosexual porn. I have found that there are actually a lot of similarities between struggling with autogynephilia,...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Identity, My Personal Journey, Prayer, Suffering |
In my struggle with crossdressing, many Bible verses have been helpful to me. I’ve studied them, memorized some of them, and often read them after failures. I’ll periodically mention and comment on some of them and how they relate to our fight with sexual...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Suffering, Temptations |
I wrote this during the season of Lent right before Good Friday. During Lent and Good Friday in particular, we celebrate the work of Jesus on the cross for us to take away the punishment for our sins, and give us total forgiveness. What a wonderful merciful God we...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
If you know your Bible stories, you know that there is some really dark depressing stuff in the Bible. There are some stories of detestable actions people have committed. Not only are these stories true and interesting to read for that reason alone, but through them...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Idolatry, Marriage, Masturbation, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Suffering, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author Anonymous TO WHOM THE LORD LOVES I am a 57 year old, former minister and I want to tell you my story and how the Lord opened my eyes to the destructiveness of cross-dressing. I tried to keep it simple and not belabor it, but unfortunately it is...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Additional Resources, Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Gender Roles, Homosexuality, Idolatry, Intersexual Conditions, Sexual Pleasure, Transgender |
Introduction If you have not read my post on How to Interpret the Bible, it is important that you read that post first as this builds on everything I have written there. As a pastor writing about my past with crossdressing, I feel like this is probably the most...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Masturbation, Pornography, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author This guest post is written by Job, a first time author here at the blog. Here is some information about the author – Job is a 32 years old web designer from México who surrendered to the Lord Jesus at the age of 29 after about 20 years of...
by Barnabas | May 4, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Filters and Security, Forgiveness, Marriage, Practical Tips, Prayer, Purges of Clothing, Temptations |
In my struggle with crossdressing, many Bible verses have been helpful to me. I’ve studied them, memorized some of them, and often read them after failures. I’ll periodically mention and comment on some of them and how they relate to our fight with sexual...
by Barnabas | May 3, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, My Personal Journey, Practical Tips, Prayer, Temptations |
I hope this post will help everyone to grow closer to God, even aside from how I will relate this post to crossdressing. My point is simple, but I think powerful. We need to be more aware of God’s presence, to “practice the presence of God” (click...
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