by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Pornography, Practical Tips, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
For most of us who crossdressed in the past, there was some conditioning going on. We desired to crossdress, but the more we engaged in it, the more we desired it. We got some sexual pleasure from crossdressing at first, but the more we crossdressed, the more pleasure...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Masturbation, Pornography, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure |
Think about what you feel after you finish crossdressing. I’m sure it’s not like this for all crossdressers, but for many there are feelings of shame, disgust, and feeling dirty right after crossdressing. From talking to so many crossdressers over the...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Identity, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Paraphilias, Pornography, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations, Transgender, Transgender Fiction |
Struggling with autogynephilia or transvestic fetishism can take different forms. It does not always involve real women’s clothing. Sometimes, perhaps most of the time, it is actually an issue of our heads and our hearts. The most common way of acting on our...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Dreams, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Temptations, Testimonies, Transgender |
About the Author By Andrew Andrew’s Testimony My name is Andrew and I have been in recovery for over 20 years from CD, sex, and lust. I have also been saved by the blood of Jesus Christ my Lord. I grew up in Chicago in a very dysfunctional home without a...
by Paul Samson | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Prayer, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author By Paul, Leadership Team Member Paul’s Testimony Barnabas has recently written a blog post about what a long journey it is to find healing from crossdressing. It is! Like all addictions, CD has a stronghold on us and it takes time to...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Masturbation, Origins of the Desires, Pornography, Practical Tips, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author By Alec – see Alec’s Testimony. Alec is a recovering crossdresser who attends Sexaholics Anonymous meetings in person, over the phone, face to face, and through an email discussion group. Sexaholics Anonymous / Sex Addicts Anonymous...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Masturbation, Practical Tips, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author Written by Alec Alec’s Testimony Hello, My name is Alec. I am a recovering sex and lust addict getting my thrill through crossdressing, rather than porn or strip clubs. I basically have the same story of most 53 year old closeted...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Autogynephilia, Autosexuality, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Origins of the Desires, Suffering |
How much of our crossdressing desire is related to having been rejected by girls when we were younger? I don’t know the answer for sure, but it seems rejection could have some part to play in developing autogynephilia. If real girls rejected you, why not create...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Masturbation, Origins of the Desires, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure |
Looking over search terms of people who have found my website, one that has come up a few times is very interesting – “crossdressing to be the woman my wife isn’t.” Now whoever wrote that, I apologize to you. I don’t know what exactly you mean, don’t know what...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, My Personal Journey, Practical Tips, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
I wrote this post years ago about a time I failed and gave in to temptation. It is always hard to write and share about failures before so many people, but when I worry about shame and guilt, I look to my Jesus who washes those feelings away by his blood, and I...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Forgiveness, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Paraphilias, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
Over the years, God has used me to counsel many men who were addicted to pornography, both guys addicted to trans porn or guys struggling with regular heterosexual porn. I have found that there are actually a lot of similarities between struggling with autogynephilia,...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Autogynephilia, Autosexuality, Bible, Biological Sex Differences, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Envy, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Men's Fashion, My Personal Journey, Origins of the Desires, Transgender |
Proverbs 14:30 – A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones. When we reflect on the nature of crossdressing desires, whether its transvestic fetishism or autogynephilia, we can see that a significant component is envy or coveting....
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Prayer, Suffering |
Sometimes, our website statistics data shows what search terms people type in on search engines to bring them to this website. Some of the search terms are very interesting. Sometimes people accidentally find their way to our website through random phrases about...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
If you know your Bible stories, you know that there is some really dark depressing stuff in the Bible. There are some stories of detestable actions people have committed. Not only are these stories true and interesting to read for that reason alone, but through them...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, My Personal Journey, Practical Tips, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
A friend once noted the importance of making affirmations in order to overcome crossdressing. His point was to make declarations about yourself and to yourself. I don’t believe we can change reality only by our thoughts. I would not tell myself an affirmation...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Idolatry, Marriage, Masturbation, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Suffering, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author Anonymous TO WHOM THE LORD LOVES I am a 57 year old, former minister and I want to tell you my story and how the Lord opened my eyes to the destructiveness of cross-dressing. I tried to keep it simple and not belabor it, but unfortunately it is...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Masturbation, Pornography, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author This guest post is written by Job, a first time author here at the blog. Here is some information about the author – Job is a 32 years old web designer from México who surrendered to the Lord Jesus at the age of 29 after about 20 years of...
by Barnabas | May 4, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Sexual Pleasure |
One passage of Scripture that has really helped me in my desire to obey God and resist cross dressing is Psalm 119. It’s too long of a passage for me to include it in this post. But you can go – here – to read the whole thing. Often people think of...
by Barnabas | May 4, 2018 | Addiction, Autogynephilia, Bible, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Idolatry, Marriage, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
Indulging autogynephilia or a crossdressing addiction makes so many demands on us. It consumes us and enslaves us, just as all idols and addictions do. What I’ve seen is that the more you give in to the demands that the crossdressing addiction makes on you, the...
by Barnabas | May 4, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, My Personal Journey, Practical Tips, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
Physical warnings against sin are a part of my story I’d like to share about it in order to help the rest of you pay attention to your body and the warnings from the Holy Spirit. I noticed many years ago that when I would be tempted to fail with sexual sin, and...
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