by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts, Temptations |
About the Author Written by SC God’s Commitment to Us When it comes to the failure of crossdressing, many of us can say, “Been there, done that, got the T-shirt.” I’m not making light of sin, I’m just saying that we are not alone in our...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Temptations |
About the Author Written by XcdScooter Reflections on Psalm 32 A recovering cross-dresser’s reflections on Psalm 32. Please carefully read this passage of Scripture in your Bible before engaging my story. Verses 1-5 What amazing, definitive joy and blessing...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Church, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Guest Posts, Masturbation, Pornography, Practical Tips, Temptations, Testimonies, Transgender Fiction |
About the Author By Andrew – See Andrew’s Testimony XXXchurch.com Can you imagine a website where prostitutes are prayed for and where pornography is not heralded as a first amendment right? Welcome to XXXchurch.com. I invite all who seek to be...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Gender Stereotypes, Guest Posts, Identity, Idolatry |
About the Author By Andrew – See Andrew’s Testimony What Would God Say? I really wish that I had a nickel for every time that I asked that question. The short answer is that for me and my life, any form of cross-dressing is wrong. As is drunkenness,...
by Barnabas | May 7, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Masturbation, Origins of the Desires, Pornography, Practical Tips, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author By Alec – see Alec’s Testimony. Alec is a recovering crossdresser who attends Sexaholics Anonymous meetings in person, over the phone, face to face, and through an email discussion group. Sexaholics Anonymous / Sex Addicts Anonymous...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Masturbation, Practical Tips, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author Written by Alec Alec’s Testimony Hello, My name is Alec. I am a recovering sex and lust addict getting my thrill through crossdressing, rather than porn or strip clubs. I basically have the same story of most 53 year old closeted...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Bible, Biological Sex Differences, Church, Crossdressing, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Identity, Marriage, Men's Fashion, Origins of the Desires, Transgender |
Short Synopsis of entire post I believe that 1 Corinthians 11:2-16 indirectly, but clearly, prohibits crossdressing for Christians. (From the New International Version) 2 I praise you for remembering me in everything and for holding to the traditions just as I passed...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Autogynephilia, Autosexuality, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Origins of the Desires, Suffering |
How much of our crossdressing desire is related to having been rejected by girls when we were younger? I don’t know the answer for sure, but it seems rejection could have some part to play in developing autogynephilia. If real girls rejected you, why not create...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Masturbation, Origins of the Desires, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure |
Looking over search terms of people who have found my website, one that has come up a few times is very interesting – “crossdressing to be the woman my wife isn’t.” Now whoever wrote that, I apologize to you. I don’t know what exactly you mean, don’t know what...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure |
Years ago, I wrote this post about a failure I had in order to help others who are also fighting crossdressing temptations. It’s important to share about some of my past failures as well as about my successes in order to truly in order to truly help others. Here...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Dreams, Forgiveness, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
Years ago, I wrote this personal post to help others who are struggling to think through fighting temptation, and how to recover from failure. 1 Corinthians 10:12 – “So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall!” As they say, pride...
by Barnabas | May 6, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, My Personal Journey, Practical Tips, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations |
I wrote this post years ago about a time I failed and gave in to temptation. It is always hard to write and share about failures before so many people, but when I worry about shame and guilt, I look to my Jesus who washes those feelings away by his blood, and I...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Forgiveness, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Paraphilias, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
Over the years, God has used me to counsel many men who were addicted to pornography, both guys addicted to trans porn or guys struggling with regular heterosexual porn. I have found that there are actually a lot of similarities between struggling with autogynephilia,...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Idolatry, Marriage, Prayer, Suffering, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author This article is written by TJ. This is TJ’s first guest post. TJ says about himself – “I first became exposed to crossdressing when I was 16 years old, and for many years used underwear mostly as a tool for sexual relief. But I had...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Identity, My Personal Journey, Prayer, Suffering |
In my struggle with crossdressing, many Bible verses have been helpful to me. I’ve studied them, memorized some of them, and often read them after failures. I’ll periodically mention and comment on some of them and how they relate to our fight with sexual...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Autogynephilia, Autosexuality, Bible, Biological Sex Differences, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Envy, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Men's Fashion, My Personal Journey, Origins of the Desires, Transgender |
Proverbs 14:30 – A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones. When we reflect on the nature of crossdressing desires, whether its transvestic fetishism or autogynephilia, we can see that a significant component is envy or coveting....
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, My Personal Journey, Prayer, Suffering, Temptations |
According to many crossdressers online, it is impossible for us to ever lose our crossdressing desires. According to many Christians, our crossdressing desires (or other sinful desires) will go away as soon as we pray and ask God to take them away. I disagree with...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Suffering, Temptations |
I wrote this during the season of Lent right before Good Friday. During Lent and Good Friday in particular, we celebrate the work of Jesus on the cross for us to take away the punishment for our sins, and give us total forgiveness. What a wonderful merciful God we...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Prayer, Suffering |
Sometimes, our website statistics data shows what search terms people type in on search engines to bring them to this website. Some of the search terms are very interesting. Sometimes people accidentally find their way to our website through random phrases about...
by Barnabas | May 5, 2018 | Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Transgender Fiction |
If you know your Bible stories, you know that there is some really dark depressing stuff in the Bible. There are some stories of detestable actions people have committed. Not only are these stories true and interesting to read for that reason alone, but through them...
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