by Barnabas | Jan 22, 2026 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Bible, Forgiveness, Marriage, Pastoral Ministry, Pornography |
I would like to recommend the book Rescue Plan: Charting a Course to Restore Prisoners of Pornography. I will also share some quotations from the book and some of my reflections. This is one of the better books I have read on sexual addiction from a Christian...
by Barnabas | Dec 26, 2025 | Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Envy, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Idolatry, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Transgender |
There is a lot of debate in online forums about whether indulging autogynephilic desires is addictive by nature or not. Some argue that there is nothing wrong or unhealthy about autogynephilia as a sexual orientation when men engage in autogynephilic behaviors in a...
by Barnabas | Nov 20, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage |
Broken marriage and betrayal is one of the biggest issues we face in this ministry. Many wives come to us because they have just found out about their husband’s trans porn, crossdressing, or feminine alter identity. Usually they have found out not because their...
by Barnabas | Oct 10, 2025 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Gender Dysphoria, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Masturbation, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Transgender |
It is really common for men with autogynephilia to end up enjoying crossdressing without any sexual component. For many of them, this is an argument they use for themselves and to other people to justify why their crossdressing is harmless and not a bad thing. Or they...
by Barnabas | Oct 4, 2025 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Filters and Security, Guest Posts, Marriage, Psychologists, Support Groups, Testimonies |
Title: Ann’s Testimony This is a brief story on how my life literally crumbled to the ground and how day by day, hard work and consistency have paid off. In August 2024 I discovered that my husband was crossdressing at home. When I caught him it was like...
by Barnabas | Aug 25, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Guest Posts |
TITLE: ADDICTION AND THE THREE WILLS OF GOD Subtitle: Understanding God’s will and yours amidst addiction By: NHA, Leadership Team Member Choice. What a concept. That mental faculty encompassing your ability to consciously choose, decide, and direct your actions...
by Barnabas | Apr 7, 2025 | Accountability, Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Sexual Pleasure, Testimonies |
In this post are questions asked by wives in the Private Wives Group which is a support and prayer group for wives of crossdressers. The questions are answered by a few former crossdressers from the Christian Recovery Group. The wives have very diverse experiences...
by Barnabas | Feb 13, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Guest Posts, Practical Tips, Temptations |
Written by NHA: An effective approach when temptation strikes Ugh. You summed up the courage and wherewithal to do the right thing. You’ve purged all your beautiful clothes again. They’re all in the trash bin, and you made sure they’re irretrievable. Yet, the...
by Barnabas | Jan 23, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Temptations |
Written by NHA: A small nudge, not a big shove, brings change I find the ending of a year a fascinating thing. Ceaseless time suddenly halts! The clocks tick away, 12:59:59 December 31 becomes 12:00:00 January 1, yet one year comes at once crashing and...
by Barnabas | Jan 1, 2025 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Pornography, Practical Tips, Temptations |
“I’m curious how the trans person looks in that news article. I’ll just look at it quick then close the window.” “I’m just curious what might come up if I search on google for ‘men in dresses.’ I’ll just look at...
by Barnabas | Dec 11, 2024 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Men's Fashion, Testimonies |
Written by Guiseppe I spent the entirety of my life serving two gods, as Matthew 6:24 warns against. I had a secret life of crossdressing and gender issues that I kept hidden from a very young age. When I was young, Christ transformed my life in every way possible,...
by Nick Smith | Oct 3, 2024 | Accountability, Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Guest Posts, Psychologists, Sexual Pleasure, Testimonies, Transgender |
My Story – Written by Nick Smith – Healing from Crossdressing Executive Director Hello! My name is Nick Smith, and I would like to thank Barnabas for allowing me to write a guest post to share my story. If this feels like it’s intended for a broader...
by Barnabas | May 15, 2024 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Identity, Idolatry, Practical Tips, Prayer, Psychologists, Singleness, Suffering, Temptations, Testimonies, Transgender |
If you are here reading this post, maybe you are feeling utterly depressed because of your autogynephilia or gender dysphoria. Maybe you are full of guilt, or maybe you feel anxiety and great pain from unfulfilled longing. Or maybe you are feeling hopeless and full of...
by Barnabas | Apr 26, 2024 | Addiction, Bible, Guest Posts, Suffering, Temptations |
By NHA: The valley of the shadow…Psalm 23:4. Painting by Frederic Edwin Church. ————————— I’ve been fighting the toughest battle of my life. Weak spots in my defense system have been exposed, and as a result, I have been experiencing anxiety on a level...
by Barnabas | Mar 19, 2024 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Bible, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, My Personal Journey, Paraphilias, Pornography, Practical Tips, Sexual Pleasure, Sissy Hypnosis, Temptations |
The longer I have this website and try my best to care for and help other men, the more I realize the importance of making a distinction between a harmful sexual addiction and an unwanted sexual orientation. The two are very different things, and yet I would like to...
by Barnabas | Feb 21, 2024 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing |
Written by JH In regards to sin of any kind, many people ask the question “How far is too far?” I remember this being a question asked growing up in regards to sex. How far can I go and still be good spiritually? How far can I go and still be a virgin? I think...
by Barnabas | Jan 30, 2024 | Addiction, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts |
Written by Jack In the fight with addiction, I tend to focus on my failures and not give God thanks for the many successes that I have. If I slip up, I can get frustrated or disheartened. But God calls us to focus on his blessings. Whenever the tribes of Israel...
by Barnabas | Dec 19, 2023 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Suffering, Temptations |
Written by Simon I’ve been working through some key ideas I’ve considered these past 14 months in my efforts to stay sober and continue to walk out of the CD darkness. Several of them come from the book Unwanted by Jay Stringer where he makes the...
by Barnabas | Nov 22, 2023 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Pornography, Psychologists, Sexual Pleasure |
Written by Jack: A lot of people look at cross dressing as harmless. It is fun. It doesn’t hurt them. As Christians we can see that it is disordered and spiritually it can separate us from God. But how about physical damage? It really can’t be harmful to...
by Barnabas | Oct 27, 2023 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Guest Posts |
By Jack: You can’t do recovery alone. I have never heard of a program that says, don’t talk to anyone. Don’t tell anyone about your journey. I think most people accept this. However, many people think when we go on a journey to find God we should strike out...
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