Using a “Disorder” as an Excuse

by | Jun 12, 2018 | Addiction, Biological Transgender Issues, Crossdressing, Cultural Ideologies and Trends, Identity, Psychologists, Transgender, Transgender Analogies (Race, Eating Disorders, BIID, Species) | 0 comments

I read an article in the past, which has since been removed, about people using gender identity disorder in court as a defense for criminal action. This made me think more generally about the idea of people having “disorders.” What are the ramifications...

Encyclopedic resource on transvestism

by | Jun 11, 2018 | Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Biological Transgender Issues, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Origins of the Desires, Psychologists, Sexual Pleasure, Suffering, Transgender | 0 comments

I found an interesting resource, an Armenian medical network encyclopedia section on transvestism. The section is called – Transvestism and Gender Identity Disorder in Adults. Prepare yourself for a lot of reading! Notice that the link I gave is only page 1 of...

Expose Ministries Articles about Transgenderism

by | Jun 11, 2018 | Additional Resources, Bible, Biological Transgender Issues, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Gender Roles, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Transgender, Transgender Analogies (Race, Eating Disorders, BIID, Species) | 0 comments

** Unfortunately since writing this article, the Expose MInistries website seems to be down. But I’ll leave up this article as some people might find the quotations useful. ** I’ve been reading some articles from the Expose ministries website. Expose...

Does Crossdressing Stem from Patriarchy?

by | Jun 11, 2018 | Crossdressing, Cultural Ideologies and Trends, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Identity, Marriage, Men's Fashion, Origins of the Desires, Sexual Pleasure, Transgender | 0 comments

One day the thought struck me that in some ways crossdressing seems to stem from patriarchy. Feel free to disagree or push me on this. These are just my musings, and I have doubts myself about what I’m saying. I realize that the whole thesis here is incredibly...
Lifting Weights and becoming muscular

Lifting Weights and becoming muscular

by | Jun 10, 2018 | Biological Sex Differences, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Men's Fashion, My Personal Journey, Practical Tips, Temptations | 2 comments

I want to suggest a very practical tip in your healing from crossdressing addiction. Simply put, I suggest you take time to exercise, get in shape, and lift weights. It has been really helpful for me to lift weights and do pushups and other exercises that tone and...

News Article – Transgender Americans

by | Jun 6, 2018 | Biological Transgender Issues, Cultural Ideologies and Trends, Gender Stereotypes, Identity, Law and Policy, News Articles, Transgender, Transgender Analogies (Race, Eating Disorders, BIID, Species) | 0 comments

I read this article in the News – Transgender Americans take on New York – I found it interesting but also troubling in a few ways. First of all, I always think it is strange when transsexuals make statements like – “It is the contents of a...
Helpful Bible Verses 5

Helpful Bible Verses 5

by | May 12, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Cultural Ideologies and Trends, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, My Personal Journey, Temptations | 0 comments

In my struggle with crossdressing, many Bible verses have been helpful to me. I’ve studied them, memorized some of them, and often read them after failures. I’ll periodically mention and comment on some of them and how they relate to our fight with sexual sin. For...

Crossdressing can become idolatry

by | May 10, 2018 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Bible, Crossdressing, Dreams, Envy, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Idolatry, Marriage, My Personal Journey, Origins of the Desires, Pornography, Sexual Pleasure, Transgender | 2 comments

In this post, I am going to talk about how I think crossdressing can easily become idolatry, in the same way that money or other good or neutral things in life can easily become an idol. This is different from me saying that crossdressing is always necessarily...

Crossdressing without sexual component?

by | May 10, 2018 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Masturbation, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Transgender | 2 comments

In another post, a lengthy conversation began which included discussion about how some transsexuals are men that used to be simply crossdressers. They began crossdressing in their youth and it had a sexual component in the beginning. But as time went on, and they...

Guest Post – Don’s Testimony (anti-androgen medication)

by | May 9, 2018 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Biological Transgender Issues, Crossdressing, Envy, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Origins of the Desires, Paraphilias, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies, Transgender | 4 comments

About the Author By Don   Don’s Testimony (anti-androgen medication) For most of my life I dreamed of being a girl. It started when I was 5 years old when my mother threatened me several times to put a dress on me when I was bothering my sister. The thought...

My Addiction to Crossdressing Fiction

by | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Identity, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Pornography, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Transgender, Transgender Fiction | 18 comments

I wanted to write about a manifestation of my crossdressing addiction that is really important for you to hear about because many of you have probably struggled with the same thing. In the past, when I was addicted to crossdressing, it might be more accurate to say I...
1 Corinthians 11:2-16 Prohibits Crossdressing

1 Corinthians 11:2-16 Prohibits Crossdressing

by | May 6, 2018 | Bible, Biological Sex Differences, Crossdressing, Cultural Ideologies and Trends, Gender Roles, Gender Stereotypes, Identity, Marriage, Men's Fashion, Origins of the Desires, Transgender | 0 comments

Short Synopsis of entire post I believe that 1 Corinthians 11:2-16 indirectly, but clearly, prohibits crossdressing for Christians. (From the New International Version) 2 I praise you for remembering me in everything and for holding to the traditions just as I passed...

Becoming the Woman my Wife is Not

by | May 6, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Masturbation, Origins of the Desires, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure | 9 comments

Looking over search terms of people who have found my website, one that has come up a few times is very interesting – “crossdressing to be the woman my wife isn’t.” Now whoever wrote that, I apologize to you. I don’t know what exactly you mean, don’t know what...
Resentment, Compromise, and Escalation = Failure. Yet we rejoice in Christ!

Resentment, Compromise, and Escalation = Failure. Yet we rejoice in Christ!

by | May 6, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, My Personal Journey, Practical Tips, Prayer, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations | 0 comments

I wrote this post years ago about a time I failed and gave in to temptation. It is always hard to write and share about failures before so many people, but when I worry about shame and guilt, I look to my Jesus who washes those feelings away by his blood, and I...