by Barnabas | Jul 8, 2019 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Sexual Intercourse, Testimonies |
By Karen My husband told me he liked to wear women’s clothes before we were married 16 years ago. I felt honored that he trusted me enough to tell me; I was the only one he’d told. Of course, I was also full of questions and worries: was he gay?...
by Barnabas | Sep 14, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Bible, Biological Transgender Issues, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Forgiveness, Gender Stereotypes, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Idolatry, Marriage, Men's Fashion, Origins of the Desires, Pastoral Ministry, Practical Tips, Prayer, Psychologists, Sexual Intercourse, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies, Transgender |
I know many pastors, Christian counselors, and wives of crossdressers are coming to my website, probably in the hopes of finding help in ministering to crossdressers, transsexuals, or people struggling with gender dysphoria. I can tell this by looking at the search...
by Barnabas | Aug 14, 2018 | Accountability, Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Homosexuality, Identity, Marriage, My Personal Journey, Psychologists, Temptations, Testimonies |
I have told quite a number of people in my life (30-40) about my crossdressing and autogynephilia, both professionals, and family and friends. So I’d like to share some wisdom about how to best do this and some general tips. For me, in every case of telling...
by Barnabas | Aug 10, 2018 | Crossdressing, Guest Posts, My Personal Journey, Pastoral Ministry, Testimonies |
When I originally started this blog, it was very helpful to me, and I enjoyed it so much that it was getting in the way of my role of pastoring a church in real life. I was spending too much time on it. It energized me to work on this blog. I was finally getting my...
by Barnabas | Aug 10, 2018 | Additional Resources, Autogynephilia, Biological Sex Differences, Biological Transgender Issues, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Gender Stereotypes, Identity, Intersexual Conditions, Law and Policy, Psychologists, Testimonies, Transgender, Transgender Analogies (Race, Eating Disorders, BIID, Species) |
I recently finished reading the book, When Harry Became Sally, by Ryan Anderson of the Heritage Foundation. This is a really well written book that examines the “transgender moment” our country has been in. Though I’m not thrilled about the title to this...
by Barnabas | Jul 18, 2018 | Additional Resources, Biological Transgender Issues, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, News Articles, Testimonies, Transgender |
I’ve been reading up about people who got medical surgeries to alter the way their bodies look to live as the opposite sex, who then later on, decided to stop taking the hormones and live as their original biological sex once again. These transsexuals, for...
by Barnabas | Jul 18, 2018 | Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Homosexuality, Identity, Suffering, Temptations, Testimonies, Transgender |
This is a very interesting video about homosexuality and the Church’s response to homosexuals. However, the points brought up have a lot to tell us about crossdressing. It is an interview by the Gospel Coalition of Rosaria Butterfield, who was not only a lesbian...
by Barnabas | Jul 15, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Autogynephilia, Bible, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Homosexuality, My Personal Journey, Prayer, Temptations, Testimonies |
Can God heal you or cure you from crossdressing? More specifically, can God remove your autogynephilia disposition/orientation? Can God remove your gender discomfort? Can God remove all desire to crossdress? Yes, I believe he can do all of those things. Let me...
by Barnabas | Jul 13, 2018 | Addiction, Autogynephilia, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Identity, My Personal Journey, Purges of Clothing, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
I want to counteract what I see as false advertising on the internet, even if that false advertising is unintentional. Crossdressers on internet forums and blogs make out that giving up crossdressing is a sure-fire way to be miserable and stressed out, a sure-fire way...
by Barnabas | Jul 10, 2018 | Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Testimonies, Transgender |
For those of you wives looking for some help in dealing with your husband’s crossdressing or gender confusion, you could check out this book by Gae Hall – “He can never be she.” It is also on Kindle as an e-book. It also could be helpful to...
by Barnabas | Jun 10, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, My Personal Journey, Pornography, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
I’ve been reading lately about science. I love learning and I also think it’s good for pastors like me to keep on learning about science, even if some of it goes over my head. I’ve been reflecting on some scientific findings that relate to our...
by Barnabas | May 9, 2018 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Biological Transgender Issues, Crossdressing, Envy, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Origins of the Desires, Paraphilias, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies, Transgender |
About the Author By Don Don’s Testimony (anti-androgen medication) For most of my life I dreamed of being a girl. It started when I was 5 years old when my mother threatened me several times to put a dress on me when I was bothering my sister. The thought...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Bible, Crossdressing, Embracing Manhood, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Marriage, Masturbation, Men's Fashion, Origins of the Desires, Pornography, Practical Tips, Psychologists, Sexual Pleasure, Testimonies |
About the Author By Ewan Becoming a Man What do you do to relax on a Friday night? Have a drink? Watch the telly? See a show? Much to the bemusement of my wife, recently I chose to polish my shoes. No matter how hard I tried to explain why I enjoyed it, my wife...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Accountability, Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Prayer, Purges of Clothing, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author By Andrew – see Andrew’s Testimony How is your Check Engine Light My first car was a 1967 Buick 225 or Deuce& a quarter. It was a 2 tone burgundy body with a white top and it slept 6 comfortably. I only paid $450.00 for it and...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Accountability, Additional Resources, Bible, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Identity, Practical Tips, Testimonies |
About the Author By Andrew – see Andrew’s Testimony Why do I do what I do? There are various things that we learn as we go through our lives. One of the things that I have taken through my journey of recovery is a model of self-examination that is a...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Masturbation, My Personal Journey, Pornography, Practical Tips, Sexual Pleasure, Temptations, Testimonies |
For most of us who crossdressed in the past, there was some conditioning going on. We desired to crossdress, but the more we engaged in it, the more we desired it. We got some sexual pleasure from crossdressing at first, but the more we crossdressed, the more pleasure...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Accountability, Addiction, Additional Resources, Crossdressing, Forgiveness, Guest Posts, Practical Tips, Testimonies |
About the Author By Andrew – See Andrew’s Testimony Celebrate Recovery! It was between 9 and 10 years ago that my son was in a recovery program through a hospital here in Illinois. I prayed for his success and for him to come out of it clean and...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Dreams, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Identity, Marriage, Temptations, Testimonies, Transgender |
About the Author By Andrew Andrew’s Testimony My name is Andrew and I have been in recovery for over 20 years from CD, sex, and lust. I have also been saved by the blood of Jesus Christ my Lord. I grew up in Chicago in a very dysfunctional home without a...
by Barnabas | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Guest Posts, Marriage, Prayer, Purges of Clothing, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author Enjoy this helpful post written by “TemptedSinner” about his recent trials against temptation and how he dealt with it. Survived a Battle Tuesday 1/28/2016 Ok, so what does this mean? With the assistance of a spiritual director I am...
by Paul Samson | May 8, 2018 | Addiction, Crossdressing, Dealing with Failures, Guest Posts, Harmful Effects of Crossdressing, Marriage, Prayer, Temptations, Testimonies |
About the Author By Paul, Leadership Team Member Paul’s Testimony Barnabas has recently written a blog post about what a long journey it is to find healing from crossdressing. It is! Like all addictions, CD has a stronghold on us and it takes time to...
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